2018年5月23日星期三

Don't Try To Control Your Emotions! Do THIS Instead






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"I want to get rid of my anxiety!"

This is what most of my coaching clients say during the first session. And it's a very honorable goal however it does not always work.

Obviously through Comfort Zone Challenges and deliberate exposure you can get rid of a lot of fears but there are some situations where it takes longer to overcome your nervousness and sometimes a certain level of insecurity will always remain.

A lot of my clients tried hunderds of different things to overcome this last bit of anxiety or to be able to control their emotions but it simply doens't work. Instead their struggles often backfire and the harder they try to get rid of their anxiety the stronger the anxiety comes back.

So instead of trying to elimate your negative feelings it makes sense to try a new approach. Watch the video to learn what I usally tell my clients who struggle with anxiety or emotions that seem not go away no matter what they do.
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19 条评论:

  1. Just learned it in psychology class today, a positive psychological approach, your action affects your emotion. What a coincidence. Lovely

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  2. .................................🤕..........😆😁😄😃😀😅🙂🙃😕🙁☹️😞😔😣😩😫😖😢😭

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  3. I find doing this helps with weight training & healthy diet helps also :-) thanks for the info 👍👍

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  4. Hey i think it will work.. let me try. Thank you!

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  5. Miguel Martinez2018年5月23日 16:20

    What are we doing?

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  6. you amazing caro

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  7. Marshall Mellow2018年5月23日 17:07

    So heres what I think would happen, people would be forced to live in an uncomfortable state, this means they have to think about this discomfort, then they can get to the root cause of why they feel that way in the first place and hopefully learn to be happy

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  8. depression and anxiety happen when you suppress your emotions. every time you suppress an emotion that youre scared to feel, it triggers the fight or flight response, causing anxiety

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  9. I'd rather eliminate all my emotions than just the negative ones

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  10. drinking alcohol strengthened your current feeling if im not mistaken

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  11. Xanthrax MC&MORE™2018年5月23日 18:39

    i have controlled my emotions be thiking of a counter emotion, i have used this for a month and i have not been backfired yet because i have mastered it so much

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  12. Wingnut Mcspazatron2018年5月23日 19:01

    "Don't pray for an easier life, pray to be a stronger person." A quote I read out of some bible-based book, and I can't remember who said it.

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  13. **This** has merit as advice! Thank you!

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  14. I'm 19 years old and I am insecure about myself and I have a fear of being abandoned and alone and it is currently affecting my current relationships with my loved ones. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 years and he has been with me through my ups and downs and through thick and thin. However, for some reason, due to my past relationships with "friends" and even my own father, abandoning me and walking out my life, I'm afraid that my boyfriend and my friends will eventually do the same and so because of that I tend to push them away with my negative thoughts and emotions when I actually want them to stay in my life deep inside of my heart. Honestly, I resent the people of my past for abandoning me and I'm going to be honest, I have done things in my past that I am definitely not proud of, but I really want to stop these negative emotions from controlling my life because I really do believe that I can be happy for myself and my loved ones. But the main question that I want to ask is: How can I be happy with my boyfriend and my loved ones without pushing them away with my negative emotions?

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  15. (smiley face) This is totally taught in Buddhism. And I feel this is the only way you can deal with unwanted emotions. To face them not run from them. I am getting better every day. Thank you for teaching truth

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  16. People stare when I'm happy inside and out. With my head up and smiling. That the only time they stare at me like im weird.

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  17. i know what you should do to control emotions instead of trying to control the emotions. SMASH THEM IN THE FACE

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  18. I tried and it worked thanks man this video helped make more videos bye dude God bless

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  19. starfilms productions2018年5月23日 21:10

    can I get rid of my sexuallity?

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